While I'm certain come into to the world wired wrong, I suspect the number is relatively small. Just like the number of those XXY )intersex), mosaics, and hermaphrodites.
Lopez points out a truism that also applies to heterosexual sex: "I feel compelled to write a column once again emphasizing a basic reality: gay sex is a choice. Nobody lacks the power to refrain from having gay sex."
I see the implication that homosexuals are unable to choose to be celibate (or at minimum not promiscuous) as an extension of the destruction of traditional judeo christian morality for heterosexuals. This in turn is based upon a denial of the dark side of human nature. Progressives believe all bad things are the result of inadequate micro-managing by big government and their minions.
From the African Queen: Rose Sayer: Human nature, Mr. Allnut, is what we are put in this world to rise above.
The denial of any personal responsibility began with teens and condoms, "They're going to do it so teach them how to do it safely" And this denial has morphed to every imaginable place because people don't want to be told what to do nor take any responsibility for doing bad things. EBT fraud cannot be curbed as no politician wants to tackle the topic. We're undisciplined and we like it that way.
So for the guys, putting one's "wiener" only where it's supposed to go is asking too much of the boys.